I know this is my second post within a day, but I also didn’t post for two weeks. I’m posting this, because it has a purpose. I don’t know what that is, but I do know that someone will read this and understand what this means.
I started this blog a little over a month ago as The Aimless Wanderer, because that’s exactly where I was at life: aimlessly wandering.
What I didn’t realize was that this blog would become a place, not only where I could vent, but where I could also learn from my past mistakes, events, trauma and life.
For starters? I am almost 22, my compass is disoriented, and I have literally nothing. Especially after my mother’s tragic death, I cannot begin to tell you how much I feel lost, conflicted, and, worst of all, bitter.
Yes, I said bitter, because that’s exactly where I stand with life right now…even a little with God and even my own mother.
Now, this will pass, but I am tuning into these negative feelings that I have to motivate me as well. In my prayer life, my conscious awareness, and even in my strained relationships.
When you cannot trust the people you love, you learn to purge yourself of the idea of needing these people. You reroute where you go in life, you reroute your feelings (easier said than done), and you learn to rely on other people than those who hurt you.
In this walk, I have learned where I stand, where my solid ground in found, and where I have time to grow and reflect.
I have realized in this moment that I have more faith than I originally thought, while also knowing that I still need Jesus.
I’m a sinner, through and through. I will not pretend to say I am some perfect being who has it all together, because I CERTAINLY DO NOT!
I am VERY human.
I am broken, but not destroyed.
I am hurt, but not dead.
I am disoriented, but I will rise again.
Yes, that rhymed a bit…just go with it.
I am a recovering addict to pornography that continues to struggle at times, especially in times as this.
I am someone who struggles to hold their tongue when wanting to lash out.
I am a person who pays attention to the things I want rather than the things I need.
I am perfectly imperfect.
“To have faith is to have wings”. –Peter Pan, Peter and the Starcatcher
So…where do you stand?